It’s no secret that I love dressing my kids. When I was pregnant with Madeline (and didn’t know if I was having a boy or a girl) I secretly hoped for a girl because I envisioned all of the precious dresses, and frilly outfits I could dress her in. The funny thing was that she wasn’t interested in dressing pretty. Anytime I put a hat on her head or a bow in her hair she would immediately pull it off and throw it on the floor. When it came to dressing her she could have cared less about frilly dresses, and was instead more interested in running and jumping, and to be perfectly honest if she had it her way she would have never worn clothes!
Until now…
In the past year she has changed from little tomboy to pretty princess. Don’t get me wrong, she still behaves like a tomboy, she just prefers to dress like a princess when she runs around. I have to admit that I have started to invest all of my wardrobe efforts into Anthony since Madeline has become more of a diva than Mariah Carey when it comes to picking out an outfit.
First, she insists that everything she wears needs to be pink, and it can’t have just a little hint of pink. No, the entire shirt should be pink, and then she needs pink underwear, and pink pants, and pink socks, and pink hair clips. Seriously is there some sort of pink gene in little girls? I am so sick of pink, but I can’t convince Madeline to wear anything else.
In addition to her pink obsession, she also prefers to wear dresses and tights which presents a problem when it comes to going to preschool, since they spend a lot of time painting, and playing. She doesn’t understand the difference between play clothes and dress-up clothes. This makes for VERY unpleasant mornings in this house when it comes to preschool. This morning she and I had the biggest battle over a new dress that we had just bought. She insisted on wearing it to preschool, and wouldn’t accept that I was not going to let her wear it. She started to explain to me that all of her clothes were too small, and hurt her and apparently the new dress was the only item in her closet that would fit.
So now I dread having to get Madeline dressed in the morning. For the most part I let her choose what she wants to wear, but when it comes to preschool I refuse to let her wear her nice clothes when half the time she comes home with paint on her clothes.
I did give in to her this past Friday, and I let her pick out her outfit since she was going to be Star of the Day. This is the outfit she came up with (all on her own!).
Don’t even ask me where she learned to pose like this, because I have no clue.
Yes, she wore the hat to preschool, and apparently kept it on the entire time. The little girl who wouldn’t keep a hat on her head now insists on wearing one nonstop. At some point I hope she will decide that she wants to learn about outfit coordination, but for now I just hope that when people see her out and about looking like a crazy kid they realize that I’m letting her express her own personal style.
Take tonight for example. We took the kids to McDonald’s to play and eat dinner and I informed Madeline that she needed to put some clothes on (instead of the monkey costume she was running around in all day). I told her that she could pick whatever she wanted, so she went into her closet and picked a brown shirt (shocking!) . She proceeded to tell me it was beautiful and would be perfect for McDonald’s. Then it was time to pick out some bottoms. She opened her sock drawer and informed me that she wanted to wear tights. I explained to her that tights are not like pants, and you can’t wear them alone. I explained that she needed to pick out some pants. So she settled on a nice pink floral pair of leggings, and after she got them on she decided to put some tights over them. I had to chuckle at her logic. I had explained that you just couldn’t wear tights alone, and she needed to wear pants so she solved that problem. Instead of arguing with her about the proper order of putting one’s clothes on I just let her go to McDonald’s with her tights over her pants and hoped no one would look at us too funny!




































